Archive for April, 2010

Entry for Janie

Monday, April 19th, 2010

My mother, Janie, has been through so much in the past eight years, I think she’s forgotten what it’s like to be comfortable–let alone pampered.

 In 2002, Janie was diagnosed with breast cancer and underwent a double mastectomy/hysterectomy, and several rounds of estrogen-destroying hormone treatments.  She lost her sense of femininity—hormones, womb, and breasts—in one awful year.  The years following that were full of fear about whether or not the cancer was coming back, as well as the huge adjustments in her daily life that she made as she struggled to deal with her new scars, her new appearance, and her new anxieties.  My father tried to urge her to rest during this period, but she still insisted on working to my brother and I—who were just entering college (him) and finishing up high school (me)—financially as we went through our own life changes and transitions.  She tried to be there for us emotionally, too, even though she was undergoing so much.

And then, just when her health seemed to be on an upswing in 2006, my father, to whom my mother had been happily married for over 25 years, was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer.  For three years, my mother acted as his health advocate amidst complicated procedures, a mess of medical expenses, and even frustrating miscommunication between his doctors.  She then carried the family through the sudden changes we had to make financially as his health declined—moving us into a smaller home pretty much single-handedly, since my father was so weak—and then took care of my dad through at-home hospice for several months.  When he died in January of ’09, she didn’t allow the family to fall apart. She managed the family estate and returned to work, making sacrifices to help support me, her youngest, as I left college and began to embark on my own career path.  

 She lives as a widow now at 54.  Her job these days involves helping women with breast cancer to “look normal—or at least as good as they can,” as she puts it, by fitting them with specialty wigs and prostheses.  Every day, she grieves with women over their scars as they try to hide the damage.  Every day, I think she opens up her own old wounds, but she knows that, as a survivor herself, there is no one who can understand the women who come to her for help any better.  In spite of the pain, she puts her heart on the line every day to help others who are going through cancer.  I can’t believe she does it—and I can’t imagine how she manages it, especially since she’s still grieving for my father and all the things she lost in her 25-year romance with him. He was her best friend.

She hasn’t had much time to take care of herself in the year following his death, and I think she’s forgotten what it’s like to be taken care of. Even though I’ve been living with her for the last ten months, she hasn’t ever relinquished her caretaker role to me, and she still takes on the heaviest burdens for herself.  Grief has aged her prematurely—and I know that she would feel much more refreshed and confident and able to move on if she had the chance for some rejuvenating pampering she could never afford on her new budget.

Thanks for considering my mom, Janie, for this contest. Even if she doesn’t get your vote, I hope you’ll think of her in your prayers.  Submitted by: Abbie

346 Responses to “Entry for Janie”

  1. Mary Gay says:

    Janie is an inspiration to all women. Her daughter’s not bad either in her demonstration of compassion and love for her mother. A winning combination and one that gets my vote.

  2. ashley says:

    Janie gets my vote!

  3. Rainy Lin says:

    Janie has my vote!

  4. Harry says:

    I expect that there are many deserving women who would easily qualify for such a nice gesture as this, but based on the experience I have had, it is hard to imagine that anyone deserves it more…

    Please consider making this special opportunity available to such a wonderful and deserving woman.

  5. Cathy Curry says:

    A mothers love is so far reaching! Janie is a true example of mothering in its finest form. She is truly a blessing to all of those she is around.

  6. Himanshu says:

    You have my vote. You deserve to win.

  7. Anita says:

    Janie and Abbie get my vote! Such a wonderfuly story of a loving family.

  8. Justin Henriw says:

    I honestly don’t know what to say. What a wonderful woman, and what awesome kids. I know Caleb personally and he’s one of the best. Janie, you have quite a legacy, and you’re an example of faith and human goodness. Thanks very much for that.

  9. Maanaa says:

    She def gets my vote

  10. Yuehui says:

    Janie is an amazing woman. I really admire her. She deserves the best in the world

  11. Jason says:

    Janie gets my vote!

  12. Deb says:

    Janie has my vote!

  13. Nicole says:

    Janie has my vote!

  14. Sherry says:

    Janie gets my vote. What a wonderful example of unselfish love and family support!

  15. Elisha says:

    Janie has my vote as well.. what a warrior.

    God bless your family, Abbie.

  16. Christina says:

    I vote for Janie!

  17. Kathy Barbour says:

    I’m so moved by Janie’s compassion and her desire to give a sense of femininity
    and optimism back to other women stricken by cancer. That she has continued to do so as a widow, who is still suffering from losing her beloved mate, marks her as a truly special woman, deserving of every little bit of pampering she can get. I’m also touched by her daughter’s devotion to her brave and spirited mother.

  18. Delilah says:

    Janie and Abbie are wonderful! They always think of the little things to make me and everyone else feel better. I vote Janie!

  19. Lauren says:

    Janie definitely has my vote! :)

  20. Barb Fausett says:

    God bless you richly Janie. May His love and peace rest on you with a Heavy Hand and fill you with His Spirit. I vote for you.

  21. Amy says:

    Janie has my vote!

  22. Jackie says:

    janie has my vote!

  23. Melissa says:

    Janie has my vote!

  24. Dennis says:

    Janie gets my vote.

  25. Laurie says:

    Janie’s got my vote!

  26. Stephanie says:

    Janie and Abbie get my vote!!

  27. Cecily says:

    Janie definitely has my vote!

  28. Tayler says:

    Janie has my vote!

  29. robin says:

    What an inspiring story……Janie has my vote!!

  30. Brooke Puetz says:

    Janie has my vote!

  31. Kim says:

    Janie has my vote!

  32. Suzanne says:

    Janie is an outstanding woman and mother. She definitely gets my vote.

  33. Monica says:

    Love you Janie! You deserve this!

  34. William says:

    Janie has my vote. I can’t imagine a more deserving candidate.

  35. Samantha says:

    Janie gets my vote! This will be a great opportunity for her to start to recover from all her hardships. She’s definitely deserving!

  36. Kibs says:

    I can’t think of anyone more deserving of this than Janie!

  37. Marque says:

    Janie has my vote!!!!

  38. Rojelly says:

    Janie definitely deserves this. She has my vote!

  39. Fatima says:

    Thank God for Mother’s like Janie, she deserves it the most

  40. Hjalti says:

    Janie gets my vote!

  41. Hulda says:

    Janie has my vote.

  42. Carol says:

    Cast my vote for Janie.

  43. Sharon says:

    Janie is a wonderful woman. She definitely gets my vote !

  44. Weng says:

    Janie Gets my vote :)


Entry for Mary Anita

Monday, April 19th, 2010

My mom is awesome; that is why she should win the spa treatments and other products.  My name is Abigail and I am 10 years old.  My sister is Lydia and she is 8 years old. 

My mom was busy packing us up last April to move to Noblesville, Indiana.  She was a pastor’s wife in northwest Indiana.  I LOVE Noblesville and our home in the country.  My mom was a pastor’s wife for 8 1/2 months, and then my Dad died because of inflammation of the pancreas.  He was only in the hospital for 5 days.  My sister and I didn’t even get to say goodbye.

My mom has had to learn to pay the bills and handle some of Dad’s jobs and still tries to be a good mom.  She gets up early and goes to bed late just to have things ready for us.  She fixes all of our meals, does our laundry, and helps us with our homework, and helps me with my new puppy, Penny.  I know she is stressed out because she misses Dad and wants the best for us. 

She needs a relaxing time so she can feel good about herself again.  She also still has Bible studies and helps the kids.  She needs to rest and I hope she wins the contest!

Submitted by: Abigail

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Entry for Rebecca

Tuesday, April 13th, 2010

I believe my mom, Rebecca deserves to be the winner of the Total Mom Rejuvenation contest! 

I believe she should be the winner because she works so hard managing her part-time job all on top of being a hard working mom.  My dad is almost never around.  He works a full-time job and travels a lot!  My mom works all day and all night.  I want her to win this because I want to show her how much I care about her.  She has been through so much in her life and given so much for us kids and I want to show her how much I thank her for everything she has done for me and my family.  She has showed and helped me through dealing with life in my kid/teenager years and I just can’t thank her enough.  I love my mom so much and if anything happened to her I would be devastated.  This is finally my opportunity to give back to her.  She deserves everything.  She made me who I am today and I owe not only my success in life to her but also all my love.  Thank you for your time in reading my reasons why my mom should win the Total Mom Rejuvenation contest and I hope you will pick my loving, deserving, and all around wonderful mom for your winner!

Submitted by: Jesseca

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Entry for Angela

Monday, April 12th, 2010

Well umm,  I have read the 15 or so other entries about all these mothers that have had to go through difficult experiences to get to where they are now. They really are incredible feats, but my story of my mom is nothing like all of the other stories. Hers is just a story of “her”.

 The only bad thing I can think of that she has gone through is giving up her nursing job when she gave birth to two of her three sons (my little brother and I). But she doesn’t really deal with too many horrible events nowadays. My dad has a good job and travels a lot but I’m just thankful that my mother is here and can be at home with us.

Most of her stress probably comes from dealing with my adopted sister who is mentally ill.  It would be hard without my mom here because my little brother does Tae Kwon Do and Track. On top of that, she has to make time to get me to where I have to be. And that is not easy because I am in the orchestra, I am in baseball season right now, and currently do football workouts every other morning of the week.

Unfortunately I’m not old enough to drive yet so I want this to be my way of saying thanks for being able to pick me up literally every single day after school and every other morning before school (including afterschool activities, events, and practices I do daily). So sorry if this isn’t like one of the amazing stories that have already been posted.

In my mind, my mom is a real hero to me and the rest of our family. And I just wanted to say thanks for everything. 

 
Love you mom and Happy Mother’s Day,  Submitted by Alex.
 
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Entry for Pam

Monday, April 12th, 2010
In my mid 50′s, I was downsized in March of 2007.  In the economy that transpired, no one responded to my outreach for employment.  Since that time, I’ve remained unemployed.  When this all came down, my wife was working for a pediatric dentist and intended to reduce her commitment to part-time in a couple of years.
 
I accessed my COBRA health care at the time I became unemployed but it ran out in 2008.  At that time, she was able to access health benefits via her boss through the ADA.  Because of these circumstances, she will need to continue to work full-time.  The stress of our life as it now is has certainly taken a toll on her emotionally. 
 
I was once able to give her nice things on her birthday or mother’s day, but in order to live within our forced new budget, things like this are no longer within our affordability.  She’s deserving of this and more, but a spa day at Ology would bring a smile to her face like I haven’t seen in a long time.
 
If she’s not selected, at least I had a chance to honor her love and commitment via this submission.  She’s a wonderful partner and deserving of this recognition.  Submitted by Sam.
 
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Entry for Corey’s Wife

Friday, April 9th, 2010

I would like to nominate my wife for the total rejuvenation day.  She is the most wonderful mother of two young girls.  The past few years have been extremely taxing for her.  She was the victim of a violent sexual assault and has spent the last 2 1/2 years trying to recover and at the same time be the wife and mother that she was and can be.  During the past two years she has had to relive the horror of that night by going through a very difficult trial and sentencing hearing, in which she stood up to her aggressor and told the jury exactly the horrific things that were done to her.  All the time never wavering on being a strong woman role model for her two daughters and an unbelievable wife at the same time.  I lost my job shortly after the assault, so not only did she have to recover herself, but she also had to support her family financially by herself.  She too now has lost her job.  Throughout this trying time in her life, she has shone through as the toughest, most wonderful wife and mother a woman could be.  She could really use a total rejuvenation day to help ease some of the stress that has been put on her over the last couple of years.  Thank you. 

Submitted by: Corey

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Entry for JoAnn

Thursday, April 8th, 2010

I have always struggled putting into words how I feel about my mom. 
Sometimes I believe words are not enough to describe a feeling, to take
what I feel in my heart and try to put it into sentences seems like a
hopeless attempt.  But, my mom deserves it and I truly want this for her
and there is nothing in the world that I wouldn’t at least try to do for
her, as she has done so much for me. 
I can describe my mom in three words: Angel on Earth.  My mom is a
survivor, an inspiration, and my guiding light and foundation in life.  In
the past few years my mom has lost her mother and her father both of whom
she was extremely close to.  I watched her struggle through those losses
with grace and determination.  She took her mother’s love of giving to
others and her father’s ingenuity and drive in the business world to start
her own company in memory of them.  She called her company MOMents, (in
honor of her mom) and took photographs of flowers and beautiful nature
scenes that she then used on a variety of things like greeting cards and
tiles.  She wanted to turn her sadness into something positive, so she
captured the beauty of life – she froze those little “mom”ents in time and
wanted to share them with the world.  I was so inspired by her passion, her
perseverance, and dedication to her work and was awed at her resilience. 

But, that was just the beginning of the ways that my mom has overwhelmed me
with just how truly strong she is.  Not too long after her father passed
away, my mother had another huge loss in her life.  She and my father got a
divorce.  They had been married for 33 years.  At the same time, I was
diagnosed with lupus, which I know was very difficult for my mom to deal
with.  She is ALWAYS worried about others, never taking time to focus on
herself.  I was away at college though, but I desperately ached to be at
home with my mom.  My mom has always been and always will be my source of
comfort, peace, joy, and love.  When I am not with her, I am not whole. 
And for the first time in her life, she was going to be alone.  Alone at 57
years old, embarking into a world of unknowns.  I was scared for her, and I
know she was scared for herself, but she never let it show.  She lived in
hotel rooms, friends’ houses while they were out of town, and eventually
she got herself an apartment.  She lost the house, our pets, her husband,
her business, and her life.  Yet, she powered through.  She enrolled in
real estate classes and became a licensed realtor and began working for a
real estate company.  She would do and has done everything she ever could
to provide for me and my sister.  She has footed
every bill, paid for my education, and dedicates her life to making sure
that mine is good.  She has been by my side and in my heart through every
step of my life.  I think she feels as though she were put on this Earth to
make others happy.  And if that is true, she is an overachiever. 

My mom never does anything for herself.  She feels guilty if she buys nail
polish, goes out to eat, or even if she feels tired.  She is now 59 years
old and extraordinarily beautiful and fit, yet she does not see it, and
definitely does not flaunt it.  I know her self-esteem has taken a hit, and
she has struggled (as would anyone) with being newly single after so long. 
She is in her shell, stuck in her little comfort zone, and it is time for
her to come out.  Her life is not over, it is just beginning.  The
apartment was supposed to be a temporary home, but she has now been living
there going on three years. This is not the life my mom deserves and I will
do anything to bring her the happiness that she has brought so many.  My
mom is a blessing in my life and there is not a second of any day that goes
by that I am not thankful to have her.  I can only hope to someday be an
ounce of the mother to my children that my mom has been to me.  My mom used
to bring me breakfast in bed and drive me to school EVERY day.  Not because
I was a spoiled brat (even though I’m sure I was) but because she said, “it
gave her that much more time with me”.  My mom needs to know that her
kindness, generosity, and love have not gone unnoticed, and whether it be
in this life or the next, she will be rewarded.  I only hope to be able to
contribute to that.  If this is something that can help, something that
will make her feel good about herself, something that is all about HER and
making HER happy– then I hope that I can make that happen.

Angels deserve to be pampered too :)   Submitted by: Brianne

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Entry for Glenda

Wednesday, April 7th, 2010
There is a wonderful woman who became a mother.
Her name is Glenda and she is like no other.
She had not one, nor three, six or nine
But ten children like fruit from the vine.
Though they are grown now, needless to say,
we can never fully thank her for her tireless efforts day after day.
She’s made each of her 26 grandchildren feel special from the first to the last,
and cared for her own mother for 4 years after a stroke until she passed.
Glenda was a shining star in the hotel/event industry until a few years ago, when her body couldn’t keep up and go with the flow.
She has pampered everyone else most of her life,
and has been enduring arthritic pain humbly without serious warranted strife.
I believe Glenda deserves rejuvenation to enjoy her golden years; it’s the least we can do for her to compliment our cheers!
We don’t say it enough…well done job mom…we love you very much!
Submitted by: Denise
 
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Entry for Debbie

Wednesday, April 7th, 2010
My mother Debbie is 50 years old and has never had a spa treatment before, let alone a full day at the spa. Being able to experience something like this would do wonders for her! After raising 4 children and being a grandma I think she is ready for a little rest & relaxation!!!
Let me tell you a little bit about my mom: 
*She had a total knee replacement 3 months ago and is still in the healing process.
*She is responsible for my 3 siblings and my self growing into amazing responsible adults. 
*My sister had cancer when she was 16 and my mom was there for her.
* I am in the middle of a divorce and am a full time Nursing student, my mom is here everyday to help with my son so I can be successful. 
*My other sister and her husband are minister’s in South Dakota and I know my mom is my sister’s hero. 
*My brother has played hockey since he was in elementary school and my mom was always there taking him to and from practice and driving him state to state for games. 
*She is a postal worker who works full time without any full time benefits due to a hiring freeze. 
*Her and my father divorced a few years ago and she began dating a very nice man named Kevin. Kevin’s mom has had Parkinson’s disease for 6+ years and he is an only child. My mom and Kevin live next door to his parents. My mom began caring for Kevin’s Mom when she needed help. She is not only loving and caring of her family but of people she has only known for a short time. 
My mom is the most beautiful woman I know.. with out her I could not be a good mom. Submitted by: Allison
 
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Entry for Claudia’s Mom

Tuesday, April 6th, 2010

Hi, My name is Claudia and I’ll give you reasons why my mom should win a trip to the spa.

To start things off, she is a hardworker. She works in HR. Every day she tells me how many files she did and how busy she was but most importantly, how she got it all done. She has worked there for 9 months but you would think she was working there for 5 yeasrs. She’s fantastic at it!

Second of all, she helps me and my brother with homework. I’m in fifth grade and my brother is in seventh grade so it gets pretty hard sometimes. It didn’t matter how much homework we would have, but even if we got frustrated she would always help us through it even if she didn’t feel good or was tired, she always had the time. Lastly, she is caring. When I’m sad or need cheering up, I’ll go to her or If I need advice. She always understands my problems. When I got diagnosed wth type 1 diabetes my mom was by the side the whole time and she still is.  Submitted by: Claudia

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